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Money Can Buy…

They say that money can’t buy happiness. Well, I don’t have enough money to say whether that’s true or not. But I’ll tell you what – there are some non-material things that money can buy.

I received an envelope in the mail Monday from the federal government (along with the 2010 census). It looked an awful lot like the bonds that come for the kids around their birthdays, and since my son is having a birthday soon, I didn’t bother to open it.

On Sunday, I looked at our bills. I paid bills, and looked at what was coming due soon, and I felt The Pinch. The seriously it’s going to hurt soon Pinch. The savings is gone, there’s bills and mortgages coming due, and pretty soon, I’ll be robbing Peter to pay Paul Pinch.

It shouldn’t have worked out like that. I should have received a tax credit related to a home purchase about three months ago. I shouldn’t have had to replace my car so soon. We shouldn’t have had plumbing problems and car problems and all that other crap that creeps up.

But we did, and we dealt with it like a lot of other people do – credit cards, savings when we had to, etc.

So suddenly I’m trying to think of all the possible ways we can squeeze more money out of anything. Where can we earn more money? Where can we save money? What can I sell (without selling the house)?

Tonight I opened the mail a full six days earlier than usual, and along with the census I opened that envelope with the bond. I have never been so happy to not see a bond in my life – it was the tax credit money.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

What can money buy? Money can buy security. I’ve now got the funds to shore up our emergency fund.

Money can buy a clear mind. I don’t need to stay up late sweating over bills and how to pay them.

I’m calmer now, but I need to think a bit. I need to talk with my hubby and probably a couple other someones to get a really good idea of what goes where right now. I may wait to do anything until I see what’s what in terms of taxes.

I really, really need to get a decent budget. But it’s almost midnight, and I won’t get that done tonight. It’s a battle for another day. Wish me luck.

Adjusting Expectations

I am home sick from work today. I slept until noon, ate a big lunch (obviously it’s not a stomach illness), and just finished watching The Amazing Race. Having caught up on my favorite feeds, I thought it would be a good time to blog. That subject just jumped into my head as I stretched, and I thought – why is that? But then it occurred to me there was a reason why I’d thought of it.

It’s a fact that some people don’t like, but things change. Families, work places, economies, weather, they’re all examples of things that do not stay the same. And while some things would be great if they always stayed the same and never changed, just the nature of the beast that is one way for several years is to suddenly up and switch the game.

So I should not be surprised that I am currently pondering some serious change coming my way.

It was a slow process. One that I was able to ignore for a while, but that is no longer the case. I have in front of me a situation and  a person. The situation has slowly moved from uncomfortable to one that I am no longer able to ignore. A person I once trusted, I now doubt.

And this is all based on my perceptions of the situation. I don’t know what the other person’s perception is – possibly they don’t realize what is really going on, or perhaps I don’t understand everything they know that causes things to be as they are.

But the fact remains that something needs to change. Either I change how I think, the situation changes, or something else will have to happen. Things cannot remain as they are.

Victory!

I just accomplished a little hurdle today on my journey to establish my new “secret” project! It seems like a little thing, but getting those post office box keys felt like a major achievement. Especially because I don’t yet have any mail to come to that post office box – it’s like a little reminder that now I’ve shelled out a bit more precious money, so I can’t give up. I need to keep plugging forward.

You see, I’m going to (finally) start my own business. (Go me!) It may not be a huge earner, and it may not turn a big profit for a while. It may never turn a big profit. But I’m very excited about it, and I can’t wait to get my first client.

I’ve even got plans for that. I may have to beg, and I will probably have to give out quite a few freebies. For this particular endeavor, I had thought to drop off at businesses, but I have a feeling I may have more luck at libraries. And perhaps bookstores – I’ve always thought that if I had my own business I would be sticking my business cards in relevant books at bookstores. Can you get in trouble for that? Maybe not if I ask the manager. Or maybe that would flag.

Better to beg forgiveness than ask permission. I read that once.

Or used bookstores.

Well, anyway! Victory for Nicki! Yay!

Bye-bye, Vancouver

Well, I got to watch the Canada v. USA Gold Medal hockey game today, and loved it. I’m glad that Canada won – they were hosting the games, they should have won. I think if the Olympics had been hosted any other location other than Vancouver, Canada, I would have been all “GO USA!”, but I couldn’t manage it today.

And I don’t think it’s being un-American, as has been suggested. It’s just a game, they’re all NHL players (and even NHL Refs!), and it doesn’t matter that much to me. In the scheme of things, I mean.

But I missed most of the rest of The Games. I didn’t see any Downhill Skiing, nor did I catch any of the really cool looking snowboarding (Downhill Snowboarding?), or the figure skating. I just took a moment to watch some recaps – only about ten minutes worth – and I realize again just how much I missed it.

I want to be in a position, two years from now, to be able to have cable and sit and watch Olympics from the moment they start until the second they finish. To be able to take two weeks off of work, still send the kid’s to daycare, and just veg. Turn up the television and clean in the other rooms when there’s something on I’m not completely in love with.

That would be cool.

So I’ve got some events queued up in another tab, and I’m going to enjoy the things I missed. It won’t be the same, of course. I can see who won already, and I know who crashes and who doesn’t stand a chance. A lot of the fun is gone.

On the other hand, I did finally figure out who that squat little man-figure is supposed to represent, all on my own. Yay, me!

Just When Things Were Looking Down…

So I’ve been hopelessly behind on work projects, and I was even in the process of writing a post about how I don’t like designing websites anymore, when I got started on one of said work projects and pretty much smoked through all but the last 1/2 hour of polishing in the last 2 hours.

I’m supposed to be in bed right now, and surely my husband is worried. (It’s 12:30 a.m. as I write this, and I have to go to work tomorrow.) But was it worth it?

When the project is completed by the other party, I will have earned enough money to pay for 3 months of Internet.

I have gained some motivation, as the project wasn’t as difficult as I had been fearing – which is what kept me from working on it these past two months.

My butt is sore from sitting for so long in the same position.

I’m not completely finished, and I may not be able to get back to the project for the next 24-72 hours.

I think it was worth it.

How I Pay My Bills

I was reading my feed reader today, and I came across this post over at Get Rich Slowly. I can’t tell you how much I disagree with it. I was surprised when my first response was oh hell no – usually I don’t get that worked up over someone else’s opinion. Now everyone is entitled to their opinion, and now I need to share mine.

So here’s how I do it. I don’t pay bills as they come in. When I first moved in with my husband in the late 90’s, my method for paying bills was something along the lines of, “Oh shit, I think that bill is due this week!” It didn’t take long (thank goodness) for me to realize that I needed a better plan.

My method now is pretty simple. Once a week on Sunday nights, I hop online. I spend about a 1/2 hour catching up my checkbook, and then open Google Calendar. In there I have every recurring bill listed exactly one week before it’s due. I look at all the bills that have been marked on the calendar since the previous Friday, and pay everything, right then, until the next Friday.

It works like this:

A bill that is due Thursday, February 18th, is marked to be paid on Thursday, February 11th. Since I pay all bills on Sunday, I’ll pay that bill on Sunday, February 7th. It’s not paid the second I get the bill, but it is paid well in advance, each and every month. I can’t recall the last time I had a late fee on anything. If money is tight, I have a little extra time to do a money transfer as well.

Here’s why this works for me:

  1. It takes about 20 minutes to pay my bills.
  2. It’s a regular Sunday thing, and after ten years is now routine.
  3. I know that since I’m paying things that aren’t due for a week, nothing will be late.
  4. If I can’t get online to a particular site, I still have a week to pay – plus I keep all the payment envelopes in case I have to mail something in (3 postal days in transit).

I can’t imagine taking a few minutes every time a bill comes in to pay it. First, that would mean writing a check without completely knowing the status of my checking account – that’s bad. Second, I would have to find five minutes to concentrate with a 4 and 7 year old in the house – not easy, not in my house. And third, what’s the point? Paying bills is not something I want to spend five minutes doing. It’s not something I like spending 20 minutes doing. But by doing it all at once, it ensures I’m in the bill paying mindset. I’m concentrating on numbers, not on what my kid is about to watch on television, or whether someone’s pulling knives out of the drawers in the kitchen.

Now if taking a few minutes every time a bill comes in to pay it works for you, great. The ultimate goal is to get things paid on time, and without any late fees. But if the thought of that just completely overwhelms you, take thirty minutes to collect all your bills and set them up as recurring events in Google Calendar. Keep an eye on things closely for the first month or so, and when you’re sure all your bills are set up correctly, you’re all set. Sit down once a week and get things done, not seven times a week to do a half job of it.

Brain Rot and the $100 Jello Challenge

I’ve been more interested lately in my Wii (Wii Fit Plus and Animal Crossing: City Folk) and my book (Girls of Riyadh) than I have been in making connections between life and interesting reading material to make a post here. I sort of feel like my frantic busyness at work is washing over to home. I feel unstructured. Like Jell-O without a mold.

I just decided to make a list of things I feel I must get done now. And you know, I could only thing of one thing.

I need to make more money.

That’s it, that’s all I could think of. I don’t need to clean the house – I can push that on the weekend for the worst areas. I don’t need to spend more time with the kids – I already spend as much time as I can, and I won’t take away from it. I don’t have to read more, tidy up, organize, or anything else. Right now, money is my priority.

“But money doesn’t buy happiness!” My mind threw that one out as I thought about what other people may be thinking right now, which is really what I’m probably thinking without wanting to admit it. Sure, money doesn’t buy happiness, but money does fix the leaky bathtub. Money does pay for the Internet, daycare, and saving up for an emergency. More incoming funds do those things, and allow me to stress less about where the money will come from.

I will earn $100 in February.

Right now I honestly don’t know how that’s going to happen. $100 is a lot. I’m not going to put any extra funds into this little adventure – I’m going to do online things that don’t cost anything. If I earn money and decide to spend that cash trying to earn more, I think that’s okay.

There’s a goal. It feels like a big goal. If I meet it early, I’ll raise the stakes.

The plan for tomorrow:

  • Squidoo – I wrote a list of ideas for lenses. I’m going to pull pictures and sketch modules for one tomorrow.
  • mTurk – I earned a whopping $11 over 3 months, then gave up. Maybe if I give it a half-hour a night, I could rack up $20.
  • I’m going to see if there’s anything that will fetch a price on eBay. I can get the buyer to pay for shipping, so it doesn’t really count as outgoing money.

Here we go.

Exercise…FAIL

So I didn’t get up to exercise early yesterday. And I almost made it today, but a super sore, hurts-to-swallow throat last night sent me to bed early and kept me in bed as long as possible.

Why do I find it so hard to get up early in the morning to exercise? I know I’m not a morning person, but I should be able to overcome that, right?

It crossed my mind that perhaps it would be a good idea to simply establish the habit at the time of day at which I am at my best, or when it is easiest to get a workout in my routine, which is in the evenings. Then once I have the habit strong, I could attempt to move it to a more productive (metabolism-wise) time of the day – first thing in the morning after hopping out of bed.

I don’t have any research to support my theory, but I’m going to have to hope it’s right for now. Because yesterday and today were massive exercise FAILs, and I can’t afford to have any more of those.

Thought for the day

It’s a bit chaotic around here at the moment – at least in my head. But I had a thought yesterday in the bathroom that I jotted down – and may have actually discussed here before – that I wanted to share.

Know who you are and where you stand, then make sure your every action reflects that.

It is not as easy as it sounds (for me), and will be one of the things I strive for this year.

About that – 2010 is going to be an exciting roller coaster of a time. Things will not remain the same. I jotted in my current notebook that 2010 was going to be my year of change, but that is really going to apply to everything I touch in my life. I’m looking forward to it, and afraid of it. I think that’s only natural.

Thinking…thinking…thinking…

The kids and I just watched the second Night in the Museum movie – I liked The Thinker.

Recently (two nights ago – very recently) my husband, who regularly goes to bed before I do because it takes him 4x as long as long to fall asleep, asked if I would be staying up late on his way to bed. I replied that I hadn’t really thought about it, and proceeded to work and plan (I’ll be honest – mostly play) for the next four hours, not getting to bed until 12:30 a.m. the next morning.

What was my problem, you may ask?

I didn’t think about it.

I know from experience that when I spend 15 minutes or so – sometimes even less – thinking about what I want to get done at work or with the kids, my success rate and how I feel about my day is a lot higher than when I just “let things go”.

Maybe it’s all in my head. Seeing things checked off on a list does give a person a certain sense of accomplishment. Maybe I’m accomplishing the exact same amount of stuff in a night when I just goof off for hours as opposed to nights like last night, when I made a list of six items and accomplished five, all before midnight (mostly).

But even if it is just an illusion, I think I like it. As I write this, it’s about 14 minutes to midnight. I think I’ll polish this up, then spend five minutes thinking about tomorrow.

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